Five Things to Avoid While Dating a Russian Woman
January 29th, 2010
If you finally decided to make a family and you chose dating russian women you will be interested in this article. If you look through it and follow given tips you won't get probable troubles in meeting your future wife in person.
1. Transferring her money. Don't send your money to somebody who you just met via dating agency. You should understand that an honest lady would not beg; she has enough self-respect. For another thing, she has lived for 20+ years without your “help”. Why would she need you now? Any former Soviet Union girl who asks you for cash is just trying to scam you. An Eastern European woman does not believe you two to be in a serious relationship until you have seen one another in real life! Would you give money to an American woman that you had just met? Understand it. It is just not smart and may bring you trouble (and makes the women think it is simple and encourages more of the similar behavior).
2. Not interrogating. You are looking for a wife, not a girl to only pass the time. Ukrainian women are serious (at least most of them) and they deserve the proper respect. Besides, if you do not question to learn more about her, her family etc… she will soon figure out that you are not serious. Then she will leave you, or just will try to get the most out of you! If you are seriously searching for a wife, you should be putting her many different questions! Not only put all kinds of questions, but put them several times in various words, just to make sure if you get consistent answers (a good way to protect yourself from a scam).
3. Giving her wrong pictures. Do not give her photos of your car or other welfare measure. If you do, women who are after wealth will be around you. An ordinary lady from Eastern Europe is more concerned about your heart than she is about your house and your car. If you focus on your money, she may decide you are superficial and not serious person. Focusing on your attainments only seems to work on american women, the most superficial and windy women in the world! The former Soviet Union is not America, there is no need to impress these ladies with possessions! Show them your sensitive side, your preferences, how you think and feel and you'll get a thankful wife.
4. Not preparing properly for a trip. Did you know that that you'll have to go to your woman in her country before bringing her to America as your fiancee? Yes, it is the only possible way she can get a visa to the USA. A Ukrainian lady, if she is serious, will want to meet you. You must be prepared to make a trip to her country one day. A girl will usually give you about half a year to decide you will visit. Then a few more months for you to get yourself over there. Make her wait longer period she will consider you are not serious and probably write to someone she would consider is more serious! So be prepared physically and monetarily.
5. Not thinking about a backup plan. This is a big error! If you do actually go over to the former Soviet Union, you can't know what will wait for you there. Be prepared to get a few unexpected experiences! No matter how many letters you have exchanged with your lady or how many times you talked to her on the phone, once you see her in person, everything will be different. Probably you both look at one another and decide it will not work. Your plan B will protect you in this case. And do not make a trip just for one lady. Meet several. Also try to be on good terms with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Write down their address and phone numbers. Then, if things don't work out, you will be able to go to another service and meet other ladies.
Well, that's it. Keep these in mind as you look for dating russian women and good luck!